As we stand at the end of one year and the beginning of a new one, let’s take some time to soak in these truth-filled reminders, one for each month, as you look back on 2022 and step into 2023. And, friend, trust that God is already there, working out all things for the good of those who love Him! (Romans 8:28) Happy New Year!
- Take a deep breath and remember God is good at being God. Let God be God, and instead of seeking control, seek to trust Him.
- You are created by love and for love. Instead of wasting time and energy “proving” you’re worthy of love, focus on loving others.
- Isaiah 43:18-19 says, “Forget the former things; do not dwell on the past. See, I am doing a new thing! Now it springs up; do you not perceive it? I am making a way in the wilderness and streams in the wasteland. “Instead of dwelling on the hard parts of this year, choose to leave the past in the past. And stay expectant — God is doing something new in 2023!
- Strive to sit at the tables Jesus would have sat at. Jesus sat and ate with sinners, (Mark 2:15) but He didn’t “walk in step with the wicked” (Psalm 1:1, NIV). If those gathered around you are gossiping and pushing others down, walk away.
- Like Sarah in Genesis 18, you may be doubting that God will give you a miracle. But God can transform your doubt and make a way.
- Be whom you needed when you were younger. There’s probably a college student who needs to hear your testimony, a young mom who needs to hear she’s doing a good job, or a middle-school girl who needs to hear love isn’t how her dad treated her mom. Someone needs your story, your presence, and your discipleship.
- Rest is a holy rhythm, not a prize to be earned. True rest comes from stepping away from the craziness of life and being still while knowing God is in control. Cultivate patterns of rest in your life.
- Heartbreak is hard, but our God is strong. Even when you watch a door close, get ghosted or go through a breakup, your story isn’t finished. Psalm 34:18 says, “the LORD is near to the brokenhearted” (ESV). So, when you’re crying, confused, heartbroken, and rejected … trust your Savior is nearby.
- How you care for and exercise your body should always be a celebration of what your body, designed by God, can do. Even something as good as working out can become a bad thing if you don’t make it a God thing.
- When you find a friend who makes you laugh, loves you well, and calls you out, keep her! Cheer her on; be her biggest advocate. Find friends who brag about you behind your back and be their “hype woman” in return.
- A true leader is formed not by a position but by love. Love big instead of trying to become big and use leadership opportunities (big and small) to be a light.
- Life isn’t always what you expect, and you might be walking through something very hard — but right now, in some area of your life, you’re in the middle of a blessing. Don’t miss out on your current blessing because you’re too busy counting down the days until the next one. No matter what else happens, if you’ve placed your faith in Jesus, every day you are lovingly “being transformed into his image with ever-increasing glory” (2 Corinthians 3:18, NIV).
Dear God, thank You for what You have done this year in my life. It hasn’t been easy, but I trust that even in the hard moments, You have been making a way. In 2023, remind me to trust in You again. In Jesus’ Name, Amen.
